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4 June 2007


I will never understand why you chose to handle things this way, and I guess I never will. But it is a choice you made, and I will respect you for that. You’re the sister I never had, the great friend I’ve always wanted. Thank you, for all that you’ve done for me these past few years. I will miss you…

I hope you managed to find what you were looking for and that no matter where you are now, you are happy.


Val’s blog is no longer visible to public. Please respect her family’s privacy, especially during this difficult time.

To her friends, her wake will be held today and tomorrow (4th &5th June 2007) at St Francis Xavier, Jalan Gasing, PJ at 8.30pm. Here’s a map to SFX.

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  1. kor said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 1:39 am

    its the choice she have chosen… let us respect it that this choice serves her with happiness

  2. Lilian (Scruffiegirl) said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 2:47 am

    I am so sorry…
    Stay strong - we’re here for you if you need us.

  3. auyongtc said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 2:51 am

    Take it easy yeepei… I’m sure she’s got good company up there. She’s got Gigi to accompany her now.

    Rest in peace Val…

  4. CheeV said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 4:16 am

    Stay strong YeePei.

    Rest in peace Val…

  5. Palmdoc said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 4:37 am

    I just heard the sad news too. Goodbye Val. Stay strong YP.

  6. shahrin said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 5:30 am

    i am sorry YP. i know it is hard losing a best friend. sometimes the pain is so great that a person will go to any length to alleviate it. i’m here if you need to talk *hugz*

  7. waisign said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 6:20 am

    shes such a dear. WHY? any ex-kvpug members going? im still wonderring where is this place in pj.

  8. Chet said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 7:46 am


    Take solace in that she’s no longer suffering.

    And take care of yourself.


  9. pwasad said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 7:53 am


  10. yeapch said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 8:28 am


    yeapch from Penang ,

    Pls send my condolance to Val family.

    May The love of GOD be with her always.

    And Take Care of yourself also

    yeap ch
    ex-kvpug from Penang

  11. dobbs said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 9:09 am

    Waisign here is a location map:


  12. kor said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 10:24 am

    easier to all. its oposite EPF PJ..

  13. Sarah C said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 11:45 am

    Hi, you haven’t met me but you’ve met my mom, Gerry, I think. We all miss her a lot too )’:

    We pray she’s in a happier place now.

  14. EH said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 12:01 pm

    Sob sob sob…

  15. lucia said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 12:09 pm

    YP, hope you still remember me? yes losing a good friend is very painful indeed but i know you are a strong girl, you can pull through this.

    i had met val briefly at the PPS bash. she was a sweet lovely girl. may her soul rest in peace and my condolence to her family.

  16. ntech said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 12:41 pm

    We shall remember her always … as someone close to heart and a good friend …

    May she rest in peace …

  17. pandaboy said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 12:45 pm

    I just got the news from someone else’s blog…and when I read your blog, I know you are referring to her.

    My condolences to Val and her family… I’m not actually close to her (only chatted with her a few times) but she’s one of the few people I remember from KVPUG.

    May she rest in peace.

  18. abgzam said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 12:52 pm

    CHiQ, will remember you.


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  20. beyond said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 3:36 pm

    Took me by suprise when I heard the news just now…Couldnt drive without thinking about her. Behind her cheerful and happy go lucky attidude, I too cant understand why she took such action. Though, I knew a little bit of her history last time.. I now regret that I didnt take her seriously last time. Val..Rest In Peace. YP..Stay strong! May GOd bless her soul.

  21. Wingz said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 4:30 pm

    Goodbye Val … rest in peace

  22. SK said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 7:00 pm

    May her soul rest in peace.

  23. lilian said,

    on June 4th, 2007 at 7:11 pm

    Yee Pei

    I am so shocked to hear this. You take care ya? May Chiq rest in peace. *hugs*

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  25. suanie said,

    on June 5th, 2007 at 2:03 am

    I think the wake started at 8 p.m. We reached at 8.30 p.m. and it was almost over.

  26. zewt said,

    on June 5th, 2007 at 10:55 am

    what happened?

    stay strong…

  27. teetwoh said,

    on June 5th, 2007 at 10:57 am

    I will remember her, always.

  28. wgoh said,

    on June 5th, 2007 at 4:02 pm

    Yee Pei,

    I have never met you nor Valerie but I wept for a young life so innocently taken away. I believe Valerie has found her inner peace and are now free from her darkness which she tired so hard to get out off. My deepest condolences to Val’s family. For you Yee Pei you need to be steadfast and strong. Take care!!!

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